Sometimes we overreact to things or views of some one about any particular topic. Some times we may get seriously annoyed or pissed of.
When someone acts in a way that seems strange to you, rather than reacting in your usual way, such as, “I can’t believe you would do that,” instead say something to yourself like “I see, that must be the way the other person sees things in their world. Very interesting.”
When you are genuinely curious about the way someone reacts or the way they feel about something, it’s unlikely that you will be annoyed.
When you are interested in other perspectives, it doesn’t imply, even slightly, that you’re advocating it. It just means that there are many perspectives of looking at the same thing.
Take the example of hand. All the five fingers in the hand are different even though they belong to the same hand.
Each person views the world differently. Each person reacts and feels differently based on their beliefs, paradigms, upbringing, experiences, values etc. Therefore never get annoyed when somebody gives his opinion which may be different than yours. Rather if it bothers you than try to see from what perspective he is giving this opinion.
Sometimes you may not even understand what he is saying or may be he just doesn't make any sense.
So don't think too much about it. You must be having much important things to do in
your life. So don't waste your time and increase your blood pressure.Just be cool.
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